(Students celebrating the end of their studies in Coimbra, Portugal.) Another thing that’s held me back from beginning to live life on my terms is that, for years, I felt like I was doing something too wild and incomprehensible to be accepted by the many people I cherish in my life. This feeling came up because they presented me with their many (logical and very rational) fears for me and their fears became my own (until I realized they weren’t) and I felt stupid, too crazy or too anxious to actually do create a life on my terms.

I’ve realized that to accept what you want, you have to also accept that the people that love you the most will have a tough time openly encouraging you to deviate from stability. It’s so much easier to have a path of reliable income, feel you can predict the outcome of your actions, know that you will be safe by making similar choices each day and so forth.

Woman painting tiles by hand, in Tomar, Portugal.

Exchanging everything familiar for not only the unfamiliar, but also leaving a secure path and choosing one where I could end up financially less secure, or wow, more secure than I ever thought possible, is a risk. People that love us want us to be happy. Happiness is often, to them, that you are safe, that you are loved, that you can provide for everything you need and that you are also close to them because they love you!

Often times when you want to make a life change or a job change or just a change, in general, it means potentially disappointing those closest to you. That’s not something most of us want to do. And so we have to make a choice – disappoint those closest to us, or disappoint ourselves. Because someone is going to be disappointed or feel worried or badly about whichever action you choose. (Though, in the end, the people that love you will end up so happy that you are happy it will take the place of that disappointment!) Of course, it’s hard knowing that some people I love don’t understand my current choices, and simply don’t know what to make of me. But, I will have to accept that, too.

The thing I forgot, that I’ve been so reminded of, is that I do have choices. Every day is a choice. But I was making them unconsciously and now I am aware, each day, of each choice I make, and the outcome. Even better, when I make a choice and it has an outcome I don’t like, I get to make another choice – feel badly about the outcome or create a new one.

Never forget, in your own life, that you are making choices each day. If you don’t like the outcome of your current life, then make some new choices and see what happens.

Learn about Heather and what set her on her world journey. She also explains why this life is not just for Millenials, it's for anyone that wants to create a life around what they love most in life. 

Listen to an episode of the video interview series that will inspire you to follow your heart. Whether you want to travel full time or have another calling, this series is for you.

See the amazing people I've been meeting on my travels and the fun stories that go along with the meetings.

Check out my travel photos from around the world to see the world from wherever you are.

If you've been thinking that there's got to be  more to life than work, or, you've lost your job, and wonder whether now is the time to do something you're more excited about, this quiz will help you. Answer a few questions and get a free guide to help you know the areas you need to work on, followed up with inspirational and helpful tips to put your dreams into action.

Traveling the world full-time may sound glamorous and exhilirating. (In many ways, it is!) But, it's not full-time fun. Before you decide to go, take this quiz to make sure you're ready, and, if not, find out how to bridge the gaps.

This fun quiz helps you understand what your travel personality is, and how to make sure you indulge it when planning your next trip to maximize your enjoyment!

This one is pure fun - test your transcontinental travel trivia knowledge. Hit the button below if you dare take the quiz and see your score! 

If you enjoyed the first quiz, see how you do on the second one! More fun, more tricks, Click the button below to test your knowledge!

If you want to see every post I've written, starting with the most recent, this is the place to start!

In 2020, I was traveling in New Zealand as the coronavirus pandemic brewed, and, got stuck there. If you want to read about what this time was like and traveling during this time, check out this page.

Many of my blog posts are about things I've discovered about myself or about being, while I've traveled. If you'd like to focus on posts that only have self-discovery themes, click the button below.

I've been traveling the globe solo, and many of my posts share thoughts and resources specifically for other solo travelers. If you're a fellow solo traveler, or you're thinking about solo travel, this is a collection you will find of interest.

Sometimes I write posts where I give insider information on certain cities I've visited, which may be more along the lines of places to go, how to save money, etc. If that's your main interest, check out this compilation of posts.

At the heart of international travel is learning about the many different cultures and ways of being around the world. The posts compiled on this page speak, specifically, about the cultural observations I've had.

If you're looking to read blog posts about specific destinations, click the country of your interest below to go to it's blog page and get country-specific reviews and thoughts.

Africa

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Cambodia

Chile

Costa Rica

France

New Zealand

Peru

Portugal

Scotland

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Uruguay

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You're finally serious about traveling full time, but you cannot figure out how you'll afford it. Or, you're just curious whether it's really even possible to afford the lifestyle. Bootcamp is for you! We'll go dive deep into savings strategies before you go, how to save on the road, and how to sustain your travels, as well as look at lots of work opportunities if you want to work while you travel! Includes a 3-day build your budget challenge to get you thinking about how to replace dreams with real logical steps to make it happen.

You've dreamed about traveling full time for as long as you can remember, and now you've learned that it's a little more challenging than you thought. Get help getting through the initial shock and changes when you realize you're not on vacation. Learn how to manage those experiences where you meet parts of yourself long forgotten, and create a plan to help you have the best experience with your journey.

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